Sunday, May 15, 2005
parts of life---lovers, friends, lovers, friends...( part 1)
my friend came to ask me today...
what is the difference between lovers and friends?
i told him...
lovers are someone special in your heart...
she could be your special friend, but never a friend...
you would be happy when she is...
and worry when she is sad...
angry when she say something belittle herself...
and sad when she say something that belittle the relationship...
however...
whatever she did to you...
you will never get angry for longer than one night...
unless, of course... u no longer love her...
friends are people you share your days with...
you would be happy when she is...
and worry when she is sad...
angry when she say something belittle herself...
and sad when she say something that belittle the relationship...
so he ask...
what is different then?
i said...
the only different is...
you can let go of friendship easier than a relationship...
though letting go of friends are hard enough...
the intensity of feeling is so much different...
then i think after i done consoling him
i thought to myself...
taking away all that kissing and hugging...
is love any different from friendship?
will i cry harder than anyone else who know my girlfriend (in future) if she were to leave?
will i get more angry than anyone else to some words she said?
will i be more happy than her if she got first in her studies?
will i become too worry that she might get angry that i give into most of the things to her?
maybe... maybe not...
lovers or friends, lovers or friends....
[ ` reaping painful hearts* ]
at 7:48 PM